August 21, 2006

If you have what you want fully and completely, what do you want thru that that is more important?

Behind negative motivation strategies there is a belief that if you have the feeling of getting what you want now, then you won't have motivation to actually get it. This is a deadlock. Double double bind. Because that will make you struggle and experience negative emotions on the way to get what you want so much, that you will drop out or spend excessive effort. And if you finally happen to get what you want, you will not have satisfaction and feeling that you have sought after, because you have just confirmed the belief that you won't have motivation if you have such satisfaction. So, if you have what you want fully and completely, what do you want through that that is even more important?

That way of living does not help achieving things in comfort and confidence and with resolve.

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